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So your divorced, single and lonely and have the funds to retire in Asia or a third world country. What comes first finding a new lover or traveling to your new destination?
Well my advice would be to travel to the new destination and then take your time in finding a suitable partner. It's also best to sample the product before making any firm commitments that you will regret later. Yes it's tempting to use the internets dating services however the girls that advertise their needs there are mostly there for all the wrong reasons. They are gold diggers and you want someone to love you and not your money. But if you visit their country the internet can be a useful tool, you can pick the girls you fancy and then interview them.
Find a good but cheap hotel or in the Philippines a good lodge. I can recommend
The Kiwi Lodge
Cebu City
http://www.kiwilodge.org/home.htm
Super Deluxe Room US$26 per night
Not far from the Mactan International Airport and its run by New Zealand national, the clients are mostly American, Australian and European so it's easy to make friends and seek advice. It's best to book in advance.
The next thing is to find an affordable place to live many of the clients of the Kiwi Lodge will be helpful on this issue. But you can always find a girl to do the leg work for you. $200 to $300 will get you a nice 2 bedroom house or apartment. You will normally be required to pay 1 month deposit and 1 month rent in advance.
Although it's so easy to find girls as they will be seeking you be very wary, many will lie about.
1.Not having children
2.Not being married
3.Their age.
4. Their reason for wanting to be with a foreigner
5.Their family back ground
When you arrange a meeting make sure the girl knows you will only expect her and one friend. It's not un-usual to arrange meeting at a restaurant and she brings along the whole family plus friends.
Don't get married let the girl live with you for a year or two, you could find that to be good advice as many things can crop up concerning the character and life of you prospected life partner. The family or your girl friend could prove to be very greedy or proof that's she has been lying will rear up its ugly head.
Remember candy can make you sick.
yesterdays article part one. http://silkmesh.newsvine.com/_news/2007/10/11/1019743-sex-in-the-candy-store
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Or, perhaps you want to come on a holiday just to sample the candy as many men do…. Just sit in the SM Mall and the candy will come to you or visit the Bikini Bar,s (very expensive and seedy).
